I selected this image because it’s captioned, Respectful Man. The image represents respect, humility, and chivalry- all synonymous. These traits are rarely seen in the world, but I have seen it in some churches. The fact is; humility can only be seen in men and women that seek God or are God-fearing.

Another fact is, society, culture and the wicked elite who run the world have done a good job at de-masculinizing men. I’ll echo what some say: all you have to do is take a look at the line up of sitcoms on mainstream media to know what their agenda is. It’s very hard to respect or take a man seriously thanks to the shows we grew up watching UNLESS you have had a divine revelation and the Holy Spirit convicts you and you repent and begin to see men as the spiritual leaders that God has created them to be. Take a listen awesome message to further set the stage: Men, Marriage, Family, and Parenting

I am sorry to say that I was a man-hater for several reasons I think, the main reason being that I didn’t have a good relationship with my dad growing up but thank my good LORD that He has begun to restore our relationship. I realized that the misconceptions I had about men were because of the way my dad treated me (I was a “girl” so I was treated less than my brothers). It affected the way I saw men in general, so I didn’t respect my dad and husband like I should have until the Holy Spirit convicted me and I repented. That is how I was able to begin respecting my dad, husband, and men in general. I was able to begin taking my husband into consideration when making plans or doing anything. It’s also very hard to respect a husband when they have been unfaithful to you but I’ll save that topic for another day and a blog post of its own.

So what is a man to do if he sees that his wife is not respecting him as the man and spiritual leader of the home? You must PRAY. Pray for your wife and ask God to show her what He says in his word about how we are supposed to govern our homes: 1 Peter 3:

verse 7: Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

The man must “love his wife as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.” The consequences of disobedience to this command from God are very obvious. It’s hard to find a successful man that doesn’t honor, love and cherish his wife. I venture to say that many successful men are not married or start off married but end up alone if they don’t obey the command given to husbands.

It will be difficult for a man (women can get ahead just fine due to demonic influence) to get ahead much less to be successful if he is disrespectful, unfaithful, abusive, etc… to his wife. I would add to that- making her or allowing her to work because men were created to work and women were created to love, care for and nurture her children. It may seem that a family is successful with both parents working but if we were to dig deep we’d find some kind of disappointment, frustration and/or divorce because there is an open door for the enemy to create those kinds circumstances when mom isn’t being responsible to care for her own children and the husband is enabling her. Divorce although is a forgivable sin, the consequences are grave for the adults and the children. I’ve heard countless testimonies of adults who took the wrong path during their childhood AFTER THEIR PARENTS DIVORCED. And I’ve yet to see old married couples who were previously divorced. Divorce brings upon a curse of premature death mainly through illness. Please just look around.

The Duggar family God-fearing traditions are a great example for young adults to follow, so please, if you divorced for any reason, do not go around encouraging it adding injury to insult. God hates divorce and so should we:

“For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the LORD of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.” ~Malachi 2:16

They [preists] shall not take a wife that is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away [divorced] from her husband: for he is holy unto his God. ~ Leviticus 21:7

⁷ They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

⁸ He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

⁹ And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. ~Matthew 19:6-9

Concerning fornication in the Bible verse above, fornication in the Jewish custom refers to a young adult lying about being a virgin. If the husband discovered on their wedding night that she was NOT a virgin, he could divorce her. Here is an excellent must listen to teaching on divorce and remarriage: Divorce and Remarriage David Pawson

The young couples in the Duggar family get married and only the husband goes to work even before the children arrive. The young gals become keepers of the home. Men must encourage their daughters to do the same because encouraging them to go out and become successful in the world as the world does is only setting up their daughters for spiritual failure and tremendous heartache because materialism does NOT give purpose and happiness. Encourage your sons to become successful with the purpose to support their future wives and young adult daughters.

I lost two daughters because they too were brainwashed as I was into believing that girls should work, become successful and that they do not need a man to support them. One of the biggest LIES FROM THE PIT OF HELL to make the wicked elite who run the world richer and sicker! My daughters left the house on bad terms because they wanted to “work”. It’s part of the culture. I began working when I was sixteen years old but I didn’t know better. Praise be to GOD almighty that He opened my eyes to the demonic deception and I told my girls why it was a bad idea to work. You can read why here.

They refused to submit and honor their parents a deed that helps them know what it will be like to submit to their future husband. Young men, if you see any signs that the gal that you are interested in dishonor and disobey her parents, RUN the opposite way because she will not honor your either. Wait on the young lady that God has for you who does honor and submits to God and her parents.

The next topic I feel led to expose the enemy about is a 4 letter word that most men struggle with and that is lust. To think that the root cause of lust- and what the enemy uses to cause a stronghold of lust is rejection makes total sense. For example, many homosexual men (and women) were rejected by their fathers or they never had a father figure around to validate them and the enemy uses that to cause another man to validate them and demonically seduce the victim of fatherlessness. Here is a great Youtube channel with many testimonies on the matter. This is a great testimony with factors of a working mom, rejection, sexual molestation, and absent father: From Homosexuality to Holiness – Stephen Black

Men, please know that all the distractions in your life are the enemy’s way of keeping you away from your wife and your children- the relationships that God created you to pour into. You will have to fight to keep healthy family relationships in this anti-family culture and society. I pray that you will seek God to help you fight for your family. This is an excellent message on the matter of relationships: Pursuing Passion & Our First Love // Jimmy Evans

If you struggle with prayer I pray that this message will help you, in the name of JESUS CHRIST: How to Have a Daily Life of Prayer // Jimmy Evans

you must become a Donald Trump of sorts! Do not allow yourself to be controlled by anyone, not even your wife or your mother (I’m helping my husband with the latter, and does she hate me for it! but I could care less)! You will encounter resistance and possibly turmoil/great disturbance/confusion/uncertainty just like President Trump has but with God’s favor, you will begin to turn the tide in this Luciferian society and culture. We owe it to our children and future generations so help us God Almighty!

More blog posts to follow as God directs.